THE 7 STEPS TO SUCCESS
1. Use what you DON’T want to clarify what you DO want.
Take a sheet of paper and begin to write sentences beginning with the words “I don’t want…”, and be sure not to censor anything. Just keep writing whatever comes to you. Keep writing until you cannot think of anything else that you DON’T want. Read it over and highlight the most important items on this list.Then, on a new page, write a series of sentences beginning with the words “I want…”, and again, be honest and write down whatever comes to mind.Then choose one thing that you want. Something that you desire passionately and have not yet achieved. Write that on a new page.
2. Identify and eliminate limiting beliefs
Now, write all the reasons you can come up with for why you can’t have the thing that you want so intensely. You know, all those things you have told yourself about why this will never happen for you in your life. It may be subtle or not. But be sure you find it and write it down.Allow memories to surface that may help to explain why you think this way. This step is where you will finish unfinished business by shifting these thoughtsWhen you can’t come up with any more reasons for why you can’t have that, begin to write all the reasons why you CAN and SHOULD have that which you desire so strongly.Act like the opposing counsel in a trial. Convince yourself of why this can be so. Write it all down.
3. Find your “WHY?”
Now in this step, you will define and express very clearly WHY you want what you want. List all the reasons why you want this…and remember we never want anything except for how we think it will make us FEEL to have, do or be it. So find the feeling place of your WHY?This will be the leverage you will use to move yourself, your thinking, your beliefs and your behaviors from NOT having what you want, to having it. A strong, compelling WHY is essential!
4. Establish new positive beliefs and habits
Begin to allow yourself to imagine that you already have what you want so intensely and ask yourself what you would believe about yourself and how you would act if you actually did have it. Spend time every day thinking and acting AS IF you really did ALREADY have it. This will align you vibrationally with what it is you want in a very powerful way.And be very sure to keep your focus on having what you want, NOT on the lack of it. This is very important.
5. Allow--get out of the way
It’s essential that you get out of the way and allow the Universe to work its magic. So once you have spent some time on your desire and new beliefs and habits, go about your business choosing to focus on things that make you happy and raise your vibration, knowing that the HOW of it is up to the Universe, and the Universe will make it happen. Know that it can’t NOT happen if you are well aligned with it.This step asks you to have faith in the way things really work.
6. Receive everything gratefully
Be grateful for everything in your life. Make written and mental gratitude lists. Write thank you notes. Go on a rampage of appreciation.And even when things happen that you don’t like so much, say ‘thank you’ to the Universe, even if you have to add, ‘and I’ll get back to you when I am clear what it is I am thanking you for’. Remember, everything in your life is unfolding perfectly, so you can choose to be grateful for it all now.Gratitude is a very high frequency vibration that will help to keep you aligned with what you want. And it makes you feel SO good!
7. Choose Everyday Joy
This is the last step in this process, and it is potentially the most powerful one.Finding your joy every day, moment to moment is a choice. It is a choice that keeps your vibration so high and clear that it aligns you perfectly with everything that is for your highest good….or something better.Find reasons great and small for joy. Go beyond reason to be joyful. Keep turning your attention and your thoughts to whatever triggers your inner joy. Experience loud and quiet joy. Make it your highest priority. Claim it as your birthright. And know that it is the energy that is the driving force for manifestation and co-creation.Living your joy more and more will ensure that your dreams come true….and fast!And in the meantime, living a joyful life is a success, in and of itself! I hope you enjoy using this process to create the life you’ve always dreamed about. I offer it to you with love and blessings.Know that your passion and your desires are leading you closer and closer to your dreams. Be conscious. Choose carefully. Be joyful and grateful. And watch the magic happen!!Wishing you blessings and the fulfillment of your highest hopes….or better!Warmly,
Janice Masters
The Everyday Joy Coach
http://www.everydayjoy.com
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